April 13, 2012


Thanks to Diane, for the title of our First BS lesson at our circle's round table, our Thursday Morning Bible Study.

Scripture: I Samuel 16:7

Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have refused him.  For the LORD does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance but The LORD looks at the heart.

Diane had given us 4 reflection points.  These are the answers I posted in the comments section of our first BS.

I printed our study materials so that I can read it over and over, and reflect in it.

Thank you Di, for leading us in our circle BS.

1. What is your initial reaction to reading that verse?  Is it comforting or not to know that God looks deep within you to your heart therefore He does not judge just on our outward man?

> My initial reaction to the verse I Samuel 16:7: is my conversion, I was a sinner, deeply buried in mud, but Jesus had chosen to pick up from there.... It is so comforting to me, as I reflect it now, for the first time, with the above verse.... I used to relate to the road to Damascus with Paul. Now, even if I am not chosen to be a Ruler, I could very much be used by God in any service in Church, and He was able to look inside me, not my sins.... Thank you, Lord, for this another perspective about how you saw the inner man in me, not the outer actions.

2.  Do you want to be known by appearances or by your true inner heart?  Why?

> No, definitely not. Jokingly, I don't think a lot would love me (except for my own parents), just by looking at the clay pot..... it has all the chips and cracks... the paint is badly done, meaning I do not look physically appealing.... But some people see the character in me, my heart-capable of love, sensitive to other people's feelings and ready to give respect. I do like to be "the beauty deeper than the skin one."

3. Sounds like you and I?

>Yes so much.... I am past questioning why there are a lot of scandals in the Bible leading to the birth of Jesus..... it makes me see those Men/Women of Faith to be less than super heroes... I could relate to all of them. They were humans too, as we are.... and yet God found favor in them, used them for His glory, in service to men and His purposes..... like I can be.

4.  How can you and I become more of a people with hearts after God's own Heart?

> By following closely the teachings of Jesus. Having time spent in stillness with God, reading the Bible, growing in spirit by interacting with fellow-Christians, encouraging one another, in prayers, sharing.....a heart of gratitude and humility, submitting yourself Holy and pleasing to God, for the purpose He has chosen for us..... then can I become more and more "a people with hearts after God's own Heart." .... A purpose-Driven life.

My Prayer:

Thank you, dear God for giving us Diane, to lead us into a closer walk with you. Thank you for your word that we have broken down into chewable portions for, us to digest and apply in our life. As we continue being teachable, Lord, we ask you to guide us in every way, lead us and be with us. In Jesus name, Amen.  

IF you are reading this post and would like to read on the background discussion of every question, I suggest you go to Diane's blog, to our Thursday Morning Bible Study first lesson, and be enlightened.  Thank you and please join us there every Thursday Morning.

I can name a few people who has loved me just as I am, no matter what.  In that knowledge, I can thank and praise God, counting my blessings.

The first, of course, is God ( in all persons). I believe He has chosen me for salvation and my name is written in the Book of Life.  I am a vessel for His honor, a life cleaving upon the Vine, with His help and provisions...... someday, in His Time, I shall live in His house forever..... with cup to overflowing.

 Second, my parents.  Have you heard of the cliche, " a face only a Mother could love."  That's me.  Looking at my physical stature, I am far from vogue.  I was nurtured and groomed by my parents, rather my Mom alone (my Dad died when I was a babe), therefore she did dote on me and delighted in me.

Third, my siblings (first blood), my cousins (second blood) and my aunts and uncles.  Although some of these in my kin might have different motives in loving me, they would care what happens to me..... and could choose to love me as I am and would see me deeper inside of who I am.

Fourth, my husband.  He is that handsome guy in the picture.  I like showing off my tweaked photos.  (I did that one with piZap).  He fell in love with me and saw right inside my heart and character.  He has stood by me, in all our ups and downs as a couple.  He is the first one who would hit anyone who would say I am "A JUMBO or a Peggy."  His name is Mike short for Michael.  Isn't he cute?

Fifth, my children and grandchildren.  After their dad/grandad, they would be the ones who will defend me from predators. (LOL)

Sixth, some church members, a handful of colleagues.

Seventh, (but not least).... my cyber COF lead by Diane, Pam, Martha, Betty and Veronica.

Thanks to you, all...... my blessings surely is overflowing.

"The family. We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together. " 
- Erma Bombeck

"The better part of one's life consists of his friendships."
- Abraham Lincoln

"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
- Anais Nin 


I know why families were created with all their imperfections. They humanize you. They are made to make you forget yourself occasionally, so that the beautiful balance of life is not destroyed.

-- Anais Nin 




  1. Oh...so precious...your heart of gratitude...your loving heart...

    Your Mike is very cute! And so are you! You make a beautiful couple! God bless you.

    Thank you for sharing about the Bible study.

    Thank you for the quotes!

    You filled my heart this Sat. morning!

    Love to you, Lolita!

  2. You are truly blessed, Lolita, with such a wonderful gift of your husband and family! They have a treasure in you too... and I'm sure they fulfill the verse that says they will rise up and call you blessed!

  3. Thank you, D.

    My love to you, too.

  4. Pam,

    I love that line. "They will rise up and call you blessed.

    Thank you so much, and may your days be filled with beautiful moments and delightful blessings.

    Hugs to you and love,

  5. That's from a scripture, Lolita... I think in Proverbs? It was also quoted in an old Christmas movie called "The Bishop's Wife," and it came to mind as I read your post. :)

  6. Lolita-
    THANK YOU--for sharing all the blessings in your life- and for showing a glowing photo of you and your husband! Telling us about your children-My heart feels warmed by this post of yours.

    Sometimes it feels as if the world is SO BIG-but yet when we are blogging, it reminds me of being a little girl, watching My Granny using the old-fashioned phone, where you had to Crank so the phone would ring to reach who you wanted to speak with.

    She would be talking away and as I listened, it hit me that she was talking to MORE than one person. So many conversations going on!

    One day after a call like this, I just had to ask "Granny, how do you manage to talk to all those folks, when you only rang One?

    She was barely five feet tall, round and chubby (from her being a fantastic cook) and she paused, telling me "Well Sister-its called being on a Party line! You never no WHO is listening-so its better to just start calling out those names and YEP,they answer and we have a GREAT talk!!!"

    This memory seems like it happened yesterday-but I know, a LOT of time has passed!

    Lolita-you helped me draw on a loving memory of my sweet Granny!

    I needed that today. More than I can even begin to explain.

    Love you, Martha

  7. That sounds so great. I like to remember things too, at a spur, or by someone else's stirring. I mostly respond to these things, rather than squeeze my own thoughts, and produce nothing.

    My blog is so much like this.... I get someone's (mostly from our circle, and through Diane's posts).

    I am more of a reactor... rather than a pre-emptor. (wow, new word?)

    I like it that this post reminded you of your own grandmother... and to your happy childhood memories. So the sister tag just went way before your Dad and Mom.... back to your Granny?

  8. Yes-The "Sister" Tag went back a long way. I was the only GIRL Grandchild for a long time and everyone wanted to always see me dressed and looking pretty. But to their dismay, I would go flying outside, dressed for church and see if there was a tree to climb or water to play around.

    My Dad would also call me "Trouble" at times, but it was truly said with amazing LOVE! I think it was his joking way of watching me get into big messes around the farm and also watching me "find my fighting spirit" as I was confronted with tough times.

    My dear Lolita- You see yourself as a Reactor- rather than a pre-emptor, all I know is my heart is always filled with JOY when I see a comment from Lolita and when I read your Blogs!!!

    You have MUCH to bring forward my Dear friend--I think you are just getting Warmed Up!!!!

    All my love and blessings! Martha


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